Friday Feels

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Happy Friday the 13th!

I know most people feel like today is superstitious and unlucky, but I am the opposite. Today I am feeling blessed, grateful, and overall full of love! The wedding is only 19 days away and I am so ready to be married to my fiancé.

I also cannot get over that we’re getting married on our 13th anniversary, and 13 has always been his lucky number. We also happen to have a new moon solar eclipse the day of our wedding! Although we won’t see the eclipse, it’s exciting to have a celestial event going on during our special day!

Everything feels like divine timing and alignment, and I am so happy to be present to it all.

Do I See Myself as a Leader?

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Do you see yourself as a leader?

In some ways, yes, because I am good with planning and organizing, and coming up with solutions. I have been office manager/team leader in past jobs and love to find the best way to make the days as least stressful as possible, but also I hated the part where it came to conflict with employees. I hated having to talk to someone when they were late or when mistakes were consistently being made, so that part makes it hard when it comes to being a leader.

This Evening

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What are you doing this evening?

This evening I don’t really have any set plans, other than making sure I shower and get my lunch ready for tomorrow. I may pick up playing some Sims, or I may watch Selling Sunset on Netflix. Or I may go on a walk or Facetime with a friend. Once my fiancé is home we will eat some dinner and catch up about our day, and then I’ll go back to whatever I was doing so he can wind down with his video games. It’s usually pretty chill in the evenings, which I am grateful for. 🤍

9/9 – Completion

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Today is 9/9 and we all know how much I love repeating numbers! I have only scratched the surface of numerology and astrology, but I do follow some accounts on Instagram and they are talking about how this 9 signifies completion of a cycle/journey.

Today is a great day to take time to reflect on your journey so far, celebrating what has brought you to this current moment. It’s also a great time to release anything that is no longer serving your highest self. This gives us a nice transition into our next cycle, where we can realign our focus to what is important for us now, in this new chapter.

Today I am so proud of where I am. My relationship with my fiancé, my friendships, my workplace- all is feeling abundant and well. My mental health has improved greatly over the recent years, and I am so grateful that I’ve stayed dedicated to improving my mental health and learning to love myself.

I am releasing the tension and fears that keep me stagnant and obsessive, as I know I can lean into my intuition and I can trust myself to handle anything that comes my way. I am releasing the fearful “future-thinking” that keeps me away from the present moment where I am safe and supported. I am releasing the trust issues I have with myself, and I am leaning into the trust I have with the divine.

I am so grateful for this life. I am grateful for this love. I am grateful for the support all around me, both in the physical world and beyond. I’ve dreamt of these days, and I am grateful to be present to enjoy them. 🤍

Red Flag

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What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?

Biggest red flag for me: someone who cannot take accountability. Someone who is consistently blaming others for their own mistakes and never admitting to/owning up to what they did is someone I’d rather not associate with. We’re all human, we all make mistakes, but we will never learn and grow from them if we don’t take time to acknowledge or fix the issue.

Grateful Sunday

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I’m grateful for so many things in this life and I just wanted to take time to make a quick gratitude list. I hope you’re able to take time to count some of your blessings today too. 🤍✨

  • my fiancé
  • the sun is shining
  • nice fall weather
  • iced pumpkin cream chai
  • qveen herby’s music
  • podcasts
  • great friends
  • connection to my angels
  • our cats
  • our home
  • reliable vehicles
  • our jobs
  • technology
  • food
  • clean water
  • financial stability
  • random blessings and gifts
  • iced coffee
  • breakfast restaurants

My Ideal Week

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Describe your ideal week.

As much as I do enjoy my job, I can tell you that my ideal week does not include going to work. Instead, my ideal week would look more like a vacation, or staycation depending on the location.

The week would include slow mornings where there is no rush to get out of bed, but once I’m up I’d be able to just step outside and absorb some sunlight. Preferably on a beach or some secluded area without any whack ass neighbors LOL.

The week would include delicious food, stimulating conversations, and overall great company. I always love when my fiancé and I get to connect with our friends and enjoy a nice meal or an outing together. Whether it’s grabbing breakfast together or going on a walk, the week would be full of simple joys.

Considering that I absolutely LOVE concerts, my ideal week would have to include at least one show and that would ideally be Qveen Herby. I just saw her in July and I was thoroughly impressed by her talent and the performance she put on, and 10/10 want to see her again.

I love traveling, even if it’s just a 1-2 hour trip to a new destination. If this ideal week is a staycation, then it’s going to have to include a weekend trip to the Dells! I absolutely love water parks and arcades like a child I am deep down, and it would be so fun to have a group of friends all go together!

This prompt has me getting excited for our wedding/honeymoon that is coming up here in the next few weeks, because all of our closest loved ones are joining us for our beach destination wedding! We get to have a day after with our closest friends to celebrate our marriage and just enjoy each other’s presence.