Do you think everything happens for a reason?

Yes I do- so much so that it was my very first tattoo: “Everything happens for a reason”

What’s your biggest dream?

To have healthy, happy children with my husband and be in a financial situation that allows me to be a stay-at-home for a few years and still be able to go on family vacations a couple times a year without any financial burden. I’d also love to live near the beach/ocean!

Are you a lifelong learner?

Aren’t we all? Absolutely! If we aren’t learning and evolving, are we experiencing anything? Are we paying attention in our daily lives? As much as I listen to podcasts (I definitely need to read more), I feel like a lot of learning comes from life lessons. Being a human with an ego in this chaotic world is no easy feat!

What’s one habit that has improved your life the most?

Gratitude!!! Making a list of things that I am grateful for truly brings me to the present moment and shows me how blessed I am. Whether it is writing it down or speaking out loud by myself when I’m on a drive, I notice such a difference in my mood and how present I am when I practice it.

Is a little chaos actually good for us?

Absolutely! How else would we build resilience on this crazy planet we call Earth? Of course constant chaos would drive anyone mad, but a nice balance is necessary for human evolution.

What’s the best way to deal with negative thoughts?

I’d say to try to recognize that all of our thoughts are not meant for us to attach to. If a certain negative thought keeps coming up, maybe try writing it down and asking “is this true?” Also, remember brains tend to have a negative bias as a means to survive so it’s important to actively look for positive things. I personally feel practicing gratitude is a great way to get present and combat negative thoughts.

What’s a lesson you’ve learned recently that shifted your perspective?

Boredom can be a wonderful thing when you realize it’s where peace resides and creativity is born.

What’s the best advice you’d give to someone younger than you?

Having genuine human connections is way more fulfilling than followers, views and money.

What’s your top tip to be successful in life?

Know what success looks like to you, because everyone has a different view of what a successful life looks like.